With sadness I’m sharing my father’s obituary, below. He died on Wednesday morning, Dec. 4, after a courageous battle with cancer. He was doing well in his struggle most of this fall, until abruptly he wasn’t. My mother (his wife of 50 years), my sister, and I were with him, at home, when he died. We are heartbroken but strong, and our family is brimming with the blessings of love and faith.

Things may be moving a little slower at the Feldenkrais Project for the rest of 2019 as I grieve with my mother and sister and we settle into the embrace of family, friends, and loved ones. My love for the Project is a bright, joyful light in my life, so I may yet get some new content out to listeners if time allows. I also look forward to our postponed Q4 2019 video update and lesson for Patrons, TBD in early 2020. I will let you know via the Feldenkrais Project email list.

Over the years so many of you in the Feldenkrais Project and Twin Cities Feldenkrais communities have become my friends. I’m grateful for your support and the kind words so many have sent. I deeply value sharing the joys and sorrows of our lives and families with many students and colleagues near and far, as we explore through Feldenkrais the blessings and grace of our nature as embodied beings.

Dad with my mother, my wife, and me, and our four children. March, 2019.

I wanted to offer a little bit of context for my dad’s remarkable obituary, since our family’s religious story is very unusual. Many of you know that I am Jewish and that the Feldenkrais Project is born in no small part out of the religious obligation I feel to continue the work of creation by trying to make the world a better place. (In Hebrew this is called tikkun olam, which literally means “world repair.”)

You’ll see in my dad’s obituary that he was a married Roman Catholic priest. I understand many people don’t even know that this is possible. There are several hundred married Catholic priests in the USA alone, each given special permission by the Pope. Dad was a Lutheran minister for 30 years before converting to Catholicism in 2003 and later returning to seminary, then becoming a priest. I was on my own separate path of study and conversion to Judaism, which I did around the same time my parents and sisters became Catholic.

I share this family information because some have asked, as well as for context for anyone interested in reading my dad’s obituary, below.

in love and remembrance,

Nick Strauss-Klein

The Very Reverend Leonard Roy Klein, Rector of the Cathedral of Saint Peter, and Pastor of Saint Patrick and Saint Mary of the Immaculate Conception Parishes in Wilmington, DE, died in the early hours of Wednesday, December 4, in the presence of his wife and children, after a courageous battle with cancer. He was 74 years old. The first and only married man to be ordained to the priesthood for the Catholic Diocese of Wilmington, Father Klein leaves behind his wife of 50 years, Christa, children Maria Hollenbeck and Nicholas Strauss-Klein; their spouses Joel and Jennifer; and seven grandchildren, Madeleine, Aidan, Clara, Henry, Aryeh, Zelda and Eve, siblings Layne Klein (Beth), Lynn Klein, Lori Brewer (Kevin) and numerous beloved nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his daughter, Renate, in 2016.

Born on August 4, 1945 in Easton, PA, Father Klein was raised on his family’s dairy farm. He earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in Religious Studies from Yale College, a Master of Divinity from Yale Divinity School and a Master of Sacred Theology from Christ Seminary-Seminex. Ordained to the Lutheran ministry in 1972, he served as associate pastor at Immanuel Lutheran Church (New York City), pastor at Trinity Lutheran Church (Long Island City, NY), and senior pastor at Christ Lutheran Church (York, PA). He served on numerous boards and committees and was known for his writing and lectures during his 30 years as a Lutheran minister.

Father Klein and his wife Christa were received into full communion with the Roman Catholic Church in 2003. Given permission by the Vatican, he was accepted as a seminarian for the Catholic Diocese of Wilmington and began his studies at St. Mary’s Seminary and University in Baltimore, MD. He was ordained to the priesthood by The Most Reverend Michael A. Saltarelli, on April 1, 2006, at the Cathedral of Saint Peter in Wilmington.

Father Klein’s early assignments were as a member of the diocesan Family Life Bureau, Associate Pastor of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, and a Hospital Chaplain. In 2011 he was made pastor of Saint Mary of the Immaculate Conception and Saint Patrick Churches. In 2013, he was assigned as rector of the Cathedral of Saint Peter, in addition to the other two parishes. Father Klein served as chaplain to the Saint Thomas More Society of the Diocese of Wilmington and was a member of the Board of Saint Francis Hospital in Wilmington. A staunch supporter of pro-life causes and advocate for the vulnerable, he served as Director of the Office for Pro-Life Activities and Chair of the Respect Life Committee for the Diocese of Wilmington for many years. He was deeply committed to the Liturgy and known for the power and clarity of his homilies.

The family is deeply grateful for all the prayers and support during his long illness. Father Klein lived in joyful gratitude for the blessings of his life. He was a devoted husband, father and grandfather, and an avid reader of theology and history. He enjoyed gardening, music, cooking and travel. In each of his roles – as a priest, family member and friend – he is remembered for his moral clarity, steadfastness, wisdom and kindness.

A viewing will take place at the McCrery and Harra Funeral Home, 3924 Concord Pike, Wilmington, DE on Thursday, December 12, from 5 to 8 PM. Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 12 noon on Friday, December 13 at the Cathedral of St. Peter, 500 N West St., Wilmington, DE. Preceding the Mass there will be a period of visitation from 10 to 11:45 AM at the Cathedral. Burial will take place at the Forks Church Cemetery, 4500 Sullivan Trail, Stockertown, PA on Saturday, December 14, at 11 AM.

Memorial donations may be sent to the Catholic Diocese of Wilmington, PO Box 2030, Wilmington, DE 19899-2030; to First Things, 9 E. 40th St., 10th Floor, New York, NY 10016 or firstthings.com; or to the Renate Fund at A-T Children’s Project, 5300 W. Hillsboro Blvd, Suite 105, Coconut Creek, FL 33073 or atcp.org.

11 Comments

  1. Mia on December 10, 2019 at 6:08 pm

    Blessings to your family. Your father sounds like he was a wonderful human being much loved by his family and parishioners. May he rest in peace.

  2. Anne on December 10, 2019 at 6:36 pm

    My condolences to you & your family. Thank you for sharing.

  3. Tzivia Leah on December 10, 2019 at 6:44 pm

    The first married priest, trail blazing runs in the family Sorry for your loss and you should be blessed with comfort from your family and friends

  4. Li Anema on December 10, 2019 at 11:08 pm

    Holding you and your family in my ❤️heart, Nick. I am so very sorry for your loss ??

  5. Padraic on December 11, 2019 at 3:18 am

    I am sorry for your loss. Sincere condolences to you and your family.

  6. Heather Van Grootheest on December 11, 2019 at 9:04 am

    Prayers for a peaceful journey for your father and healing for your family. What a tremendous person, though know who you are, Nick, it comes as no surprise. May love surround you and your faith keep you buoyant.

  7. Mary on December 11, 2019 at 3:04 pm

    Your father must have been so pleased that you followed his path of ministering to people in need. My heart thoughts are with you and your family.

  8. Julie on December 11, 2019 at 3:33 pm

    What a remarkable life story! I’m sorry I didn’t know him and grateful to you for sharing him with us. Sending hugs and heart energy to you and your family, and to the many communities in which he served. He will surely be missed.

  9. Souzzann Zink on December 13, 2019 at 10:51 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today. When my father passed away suddenly when I was a little girl, the support given to my mother and me by the parish where we lived was remarkable. May you and yours feel your hearts cared for and nourished in this challenging time. Thank you for sharing the beautiful stories of religious journeys and community service lived by you and your father.

  10. Carol Veder on December 13, 2019 at 11:58 am

    Thank you for sharing your father’s obituary. I don’t know you or him, but your willingness to share about this very personal experience creates community. Actually, because you shared your feelings and experience of your father, I feel that I am a part of your community. My parents are both gone, but I do think of them often and tell my children and grandchildren little stories about them, their quirks, their wisdom, their warmth. I’m sure you do the same with your children. They will surely see those same lovely qualities in you and begin to develop them in themselves. We are connected.

  11. Nick Strauss-Klein on December 16, 2019 at 3:29 pm

    So grateful to all of your words of support and kindness!

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